When it comes to your wedding planning, one of the key aspects of your guest experience AND your budget will be your catering selection. At the very foundational level, you have three options to choose from: full-service catering, drop-off catering, or taking the do-it-yourself (DIY) route. Whether they have a $50,000 budget, or a $150,000 budget, our clients always opt for full-service catering. As we’re seeing many couples in the beginning stages of their planning this month, we thought it might be helpful to outline why we always advocate for this pricier, but well worth-it, choice:
Full-service catering is more than just great food; it is akin to hiring a team that ensures every aspect of your wedding meal, including your drinks, appetizers, and dessert, is handled professionally. This option covers all the bases, from preparing and serving the food to cleaning up afterward. While it may be the most expensive choice, it offers an unmatched level of convenience and service, allowing you to focus on the celebration rather than the logistics. A full service catering team can also provide all of the below:
It is important to note that these tasks are NOT tasks that are otherwise handled by other vendors; most vendors (including your wedding planner) will not handle food or alcohol for liability reasons, and may have a policy against handling any special rentals not sourced through them. In the absence of a full-service catering staff, these tasks will fall to you and your friends and family.
So as to not provide only a one-sided argument, here is a quick description of the other two forms of catering, along with their pros and cons:
Drop-off catering is the middle ground—more affordable and straightforward. Your chosen fare is delivered to the venue, but the responsibilities of setting up, serving, and after-event cleaning will lie with you and your guests. It’s a practical choice, but comes with the trade-off of managing these tasks during what should be a time to relax and enjoy. During the pandemic, we saw this option work well enough for micro-weddings of 30 guests or fewer. However, we still recommend sourcing one or two servers to work hourly to help serve drinks, bus tables, and breakdown your rentals.
Opting for DIY catering can inject personal flair into your wedding, with family recipes and favorite dishes on the menu. This hands-on approach can save money but demands careful planning and coordination. It’s a labor of love that will add to your workload and may stress out your friends and family. If you are getting married at a venue, DIY catering may not be an option, as most venues require caterers to have business licenses and business insurance. If you are opting for a casual backyard party, we still recommend saving a few hundred dollars for backup pizza if something goes awry, and purchasing large trash barrels to help with post-meal management.
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