Budgeting for a wedding can feel overwhelming—especially in a major city, where costs can add up quickly. But here’s the good news: you don’t have to spend top dollar on everything. The key to a balanced wedding budget is knowing where to splurge for maximum impact and where to scale back without compromising style or experience.
Where to Splurge: High-Impact Investments
1. Photography & Videography
📸 Why? Your wedding day lasts one day, but your photos and video last forever. A talented photographer will capture the emotions, little moments, and artistic shots that you’ll treasure for a lifetime.
💰 Splurge Smartly:
Hire a photographer whose style you truly love, rather than going for the cheapest option.
If a full-day package isn’t in the budget, prioritize coverage for the ceremony, portraits, and reception highlights.
Videography is optional for some couples, but if you value motion and sound (like vows or speeches), it’s worth the investment.
2. Wedding Planner (or at Least a Coordinator!)
📋 Why? A wedding planner keeps everything organized, on schedule, and stress-free—helping you avoid costly mistakes and vendor mishaps.
💰 Splurge Smartly:
If a full-service planner isn’t in your budget, a month-of-coordinator is still a game-changer.
Work with a planner who knows your wedding market well—they’ll have insight on logistics and preferred vendors that fit your style and budget.
3. Catering & Bar
🍽 Why? Your guests will always remember the food and drinks. Great food = happy guests. Bad food = everyone talking about it (for the wrong reasons).
💰 Splurge Smartly:
Opt for quality over quantity. A well-prepared three-course meal is better than an uninspired five-course dinner.
Consider a specialty cocktail or an upgraded wine selection for a personalized touch.
Buffets and stations can be just as elegant as plated meals if done well.
4. Entertainment (Live Band or DJ)
🎶 Why? Your entertainment sets the tone for the entire reception. Whether it’s a DJ or a live band, music makes or breaks the party.
💰 Splurge Smartly:
A high-quality DJ with experience reading the crowd is worth more than just a playlist.
If a full band is out of budget, consider a hybrid DJ/live musician combo for a unique touch.
Make sure your DJ or band includes sound equipment and lighting to avoid extra rental costs.
5. Floral & Decor for Key Areas
💐 Why? Stunning florals and decor can transform your venue—but you don’t need over-the-top arrangements everywhere.
💰 Splurge Smartly:
Focus on high-impact areas like the ceremony backdrop, reception centerpieces, and entryways.
Repurpose floral arrangements from the ceremony to the reception (aisle flowers → guest tables, etc.).
If fresh flowers are too costly, mix in candles and greenery for an elegant, cost-effective look.
Where to Save: Smart Budget Cuts
1. Invitations & Stationery
✉️ Why? Your guests will appreciate a well-designed invitation, but most paper goods end up in the trash.
💰 Save Smartly:
Opt for digital RSVPs to cut printing and postage costs.
Choose semi-custom designs over full custom work for a polished look at a fraction of the price.
If you love the idea of a full invitation suite, save on day-of costs by cutting a welcome sign and ceremony programs.
2. Favors & Guest Gifts
🎁 Why? Most guests forget or leave favors behind—so if you’re spending big here, you may be wasting money.
💰 Save Smartly:
Skip traditional favors and donate to a charity in your guests’ honor.
If you want to give something, edible favors (like macarons or mini bottles of olive oil) are always a hit.
Let your photobooth or late-night snacks double as the guest takeaway!
3. Wedding Cake
🎂 Why? A show-stopping cake looks beautiful, but most guests won’t even finish their slice.
💰 Save Smartly:
Order a small decorative cake for display and a sheet cake for serving.
Go for buttercream instead of fondant—it’s just as elegant but less expensive.
If cake isn’t your thing, a dessert bar can be a fun, budget-friendly alternative.
4. Wedding Attire for the Wedding Party
👗 Why? Bridesmaids and groomsmen don’t need expensive outfits to look great.
💰 Save Smartly:
Let your bridal party choose their own outfits within a color palette.
Skip custom tailoring for groomsmen and opt for suit rentals instead.
Keep accessories simple—your bridesmaids don’t need matching robes, jewelry, and shoes.
5. Transportation
🚗 Why? Guests can Uber, carpool, or use shuttles if needed. Limos and vintage cars are nice, but not essential.
💰 Save Smartly:
Skip personal limos unless you have a long travel distance.
If guests need transport, consider group shuttles instead of individual rides.
Ask your hotel about complimentary shuttles for guests staying in room blocks.
Final Thoughts: Budgeting with Intention
Your wedding budget is all about prioritizing what matters most to you as a couple. Spend where it makes the biggest impact—on things that enhance the guest experience and create lasting memories.
I firmly believe that knowledge is power. Answer a few questions about the wedding you want, and I’ll explain what you’ll realistically need to budget per guest (and break down where that money’s likely to go).